“Do not attribute to malice what you can attribute to incompetence”

People aren’t generally evil or out to get you, they’re just asleep, blind, ignorant, or not aware. They mean no harm, they just seem to live with no inner reflection. They might not of been blessed with a guiding mentor to teach them otherwise. So how else should they know any different.

Father forgive them for they know not what they do -Jesus

This brings a certain level of peace and understanding.

Solution: always, no matter what, act through love. This will lead to the best outcome. And if someone’s intentions do seem to be of malice, then respond accordingly.